Missing Gary Tweddle Book Part 13 – INTRODUCTION: GARY TWEDDLE
Mr Gary Tweddle’s unexplained disappearance in the winter of 2013 sparked the largest search for a missing person in Blue Mountains history…well at least to date at the time.
This article is particularly a credit to the more than one thousand Blue Mountains locals (officials, along with volunteering ordinary folk who cared) who tried to find and save Gary not knowing him or where he had gone and under extreme mountainous wintry conditions. It’s just what good Samaritans do.
Their dedicated efforts are part of this story, and since the real truth has not before been disclosed officially, the author in hindsight after the research discoveries, considers each rescuer deserves to know what really happened and so like Gary’s family, loved ones and friends, seek some sort of closure.
But Gary will never be forgotten.

Gary photographed here happy on Sydney Harbour in front of perhaps what looks like The Sydney-Hobart Classic Yacht Regatta out of Rushcutters Bay, pre-Race in December 2012 – clearly in summer). [Note: This author was manager of Poweryacht Marine Services at D’Albora Marinas at Rushcutters Bay in 1998 – yes, at the time of that dreadful year for the Sydney-to-Hobart].
“Gary was to give me away that morning and this decision was difficult to come to, however made easy by the fact that Gary was adamant that after 15 years we tie the knot. It was a day full of emotions with a common theme – love and hope for Gary, for us and for our family. Gary was the most positive person I know. Today he would say to me: ‘Just get on with it, mother’, and so I will. I remain as positive as ever as Gary would want me to. I just want my beautiful boy back. There is always love and hope and it is these two things that I will hold on to, always.”
“On the mountain my days were filled with sirens, noise, searching, tireless walking and door-knocking.I repeatedly followed the track I believed he had taken in the hopes of finding a clue. Every pole and tree were covered with his beautiful face. However, it was on a piece of A4 paper with a ‘missing’ heading.At one point I was so exhausted I found a bench to sit on in the middle of a bush track, and as I sat down there to the left of me was Gary’s photo. It was a small comfort as I stroked his face, kissed him and told him how much I loved him and that I will never give up trying to find him, ever.”
“intimate celebration of our family unity. Gary was to give me away that morning and this decision was difficult to come to, however made easy by the fact that Gary was adamant that after 15 years we tie the knot. It was a day full of emotions with a common theme – love and hope for Gary, for us and for our family. Gary was the most positive person I know. Today he would say to me: ‘Just get on with it, mother’, and so I will. I remain as positive as ever as Gary would want me to. I just want my beautiful boy back. There is always love and hope and it is these two things that I will hold on to, always.”
Clearly, Carol was very close to her son Gary. Gary’s upbringing seemed problematic and perhaps lacking parental direction at a critical impressionable time in his childhood.
- The largest missing person search in Blue Mountains history
- A misguided search and rescue effort
- Another death by misadventure in the Blue Mountains
- A complex family backstory
- Oracle sales stressful corporate culture
- Poor police methodology
- NSW Coroner’s Court lack of inquest and public transparency failures
- Narcotic use, and criminal dealing
- Sydney’s rampant cocaine scene.

Sales Executive Gary Tweddle with his girlfriend Anika Haigh at an Oracle Corporation staff party in Sydney, circa 2012-2013. May be the concerned bloke in the background had wisened up to know the reality of what to expect in Oracle sales management? Note: Gary is wearing glasses and NOT for reading!

Gary Tweddle (left – note no ‘nerdy’ glasses in front of his colleagues) shown partying with his Oracle work mates – clearly they all get on as mates. Perhaps at his Cremorne flat in Sydney before they headed out on the town. [Photo taken well before Oracle’s Sales Conference in the Blue Mountains].
Young people like Gary and his work mates naturally seek fun and excitement and many party frequently, especially the more exuberant personalities. They are predisposed to take more risks than older folks – their natural youth, fitness and boundless energy convincing them that they are pretty much bulletproof.
Regrettably, some seek high-risk pursuits and are more inclined to be influenced by their mates. Youth risk aversion and propensity for fun (at any cost) can mean taking risks like experimenting with narcotics. The media reports at the time connected Gary with narcotics, but this revelation took some weeks to be revealed publicly from Gary’s co-workers following Gary’s sudden disappearance.
Narcotic drug use can be associated with a response to uncontrollable anxiety. Workplace stress such as a high pressure sales performance expectation culture can inculcate feelings of inadequacy and this can urge one to turn to coping mechanisms, like such substance abuse.
But was Gary using drugs?
At the time of his disappearance this was not publicised. Police were just starting to investigate his sudden and unexplained disappearance, and the media reporting early on was not aware.
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